The pandemic might not make me a better person

Day 20 of our self-imposed isolation and I have to confess, I haven’t really maximised the opportunity to self-actualize. Not that there’s been any shortage of resources or recommendations shared by beautiful loving-minded friends – how to work from home, how to be healthy when completely alone, how to learn a second language, spring clean … Continue reading The pandemic might not make me a better person

Together apart – it’s still okay to smile at each other

I don't know about you, but it's obvious to me from reading this May 25 update from Pemberton Mayor Mike Richman (which is still relevant) that he's married to a counselor. And yes, we all need mental health support right now. And there are resources available. (Scroll to the bottom for some helpful phone numbers.) … Continue reading Together apart – it’s still okay to smile at each other

Sorry, the therapeutic bonfire is over. Burn restrictions in place throughout our region

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say there's something about man-energy that has trouble sitting still, and when stuck at home, embarks on an immediate brush-burning project. At least, that's what happened for some, ahem, men I know. And I think it was somewhat common. As of March 27, 2020, at … Continue reading Sorry, the therapeutic bonfire is over. Burn restrictions in place throughout our region

Keeping the Smoke Hole open: seek vigil not isolation by Dr Martin Shaw

In Siberian myth, when you want to hurt someone, you crawl into their tent and close the smoke hole. That way God can’t see them. Close the smoke hole and you break connection to the divine world. Mountains, rivers, trees. Close the smoke hole and we become mad. Close the smoke hole and we are … Continue reading Keeping the Smoke Hole open: seek vigil not isolation by Dr Martin Shaw

Emotions last 90 seconds, so why am I still freaking out?

Here's the phenomenal nugget of information that dropped into my lap this week: emotions last about 90 seconds. After 90 seconds, the feeling has been metabolized... What lingers is the story you choose to associate with that feeling. So, my frustration on Tuesday morning, at my 7 year old's molasses-slow non-attempt at getting ready, and … Continue reading Emotions last 90 seconds, so why am I still freaking out?